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		<title>By: YANIZA</title>
		<link>http://askayeti.com/2009/11/daddy-swap/comment-page-1/#comment-181</link>
		<dc:creator>YANIZA</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jun 2010 18:06:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi 

You are not the only one that all this happened to.
I met my husband in American Singles Dec 24th hanged out and in 4 days I say he moved in with me.I felt like he was the right one.
3 months later I found out im pregnant. This was a shock to me because the only thing i was thinking was&quot;what the heck am i doing he is going to leave me with a baby and i still havent finish my career.
well guess what I had a baby girl in January 2009 and got married Feb 9 2009.
We are happy and no one can take us apart..


God bless you wish you same luck.</description>
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<p>You are not the only one that all this happened to.<br />
I met my husband in American Singles Dec 24th hanged out and in 4 days I say he moved in with me.I felt like he was the right one.<br />
3 months later I found out im pregnant. This was a shock to me because the only thing i was thinking was&#8221;what the heck am i doing he is going to leave me with a baby and i still havent finish my career.<br />
well guess what I had a baby girl in January 2009 and got married Feb 9 2009.<br />
We are happy and no one can take us apart..</p>
<p>God bless you wish you same luck.</p>
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		<title>By: Brittany</title>
		<link>http://askayeti.com/2009/11/daddy-swap/comment-page-1/#comment-178</link>
		<dc:creator>Brittany</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jun 2010 02:46:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>if u was daten him for 2months an u 3months pregrant dats not hes baby</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>if u was daten him for 2months an u 3months pregrant dats not hes baby</p>
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		<title>By: karen</title>
		<link>http://askayeti.com/2009/11/daddy-swap/comment-page-1/#comment-109</link>
		<dc:creator>karen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Apr 2010 14:57:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You without a doubt are not emotional mature enough to give birth to another human. With thoughts like this one in your mind. You have two options... 1) You get an abortion or ... 2) you put this baby up for adoption. Then don&#039;t get pregnent again until you have matured first for your sake and most of all for th e childs sake. On another note 3 months is not enough time to know if you &quot;love&quot; someone.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You without a doubt are not emotional mature enough to give birth to another human. With thoughts like this one in your mind. You have two options&#8230; 1) You get an abortion or &#8230; 2) you put this baby up for adoption. Then don&#8217;t get pregnent again until you have matured first for your sake and most of all for th e childs sake. On another note 3 months is not enough time to know if you &#8220;love&#8221; someone.</p>
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		<title>By: nora</title>
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		<dc:creator>nora</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2010 01:55:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>my opinion is that you have been together for two months? you sound young i think you should tell the boyfriend the truth if he really loves you he will except the fact you are caring another mans baby, if not then my other option would be to abort the fetus..  there are tooo many single mothers in the world right now living off welfare, do you really want that?  if you dont have help with the child what are you going to do? the child will suffer for your mistakes.. i dont know if you will have help with the baby  or if your alone on this? but think about it..i am 20 yrs old with two kids from the same father i live off welfare, i have no money for my children and their dad is married with another baby on the way..i have no help with my children no day care so i can work...everyone says dont abort it that is evil.. well for listening to them look where me and my children are my kids are suffering are any of those who said &quot;dont abort it&quot; here to feed my children? or clothe my children? no i am by myself with them suffering so dont listen to any one who says abortion is evil... fuck that. if you cant provide for the baby then that is the option.or if he wants to be the father marry him and have a good life. take care.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>my opinion is that you have been together for two months? you sound young i think you should tell the boyfriend the truth if he really loves you he will except the fact you are caring another mans baby, if not then my other option would be to abort the fetus..  there are tooo many single mothers in the world right now living off welfare, do you really want that?  if you dont have help with the child what are you going to do? the child will suffer for your mistakes.. i dont know if you will have help with the baby  or if your alone on this? but think about it..i am 20 yrs old with two kids from the same father i live off welfare, i have no money for my children and their dad is married with another baby on the way..i have no help with my children no day care so i can work&#8230;everyone says dont abort it that is evil.. well for listening to them look where me and my children are my kids are suffering are any of those who said &#8220;dont abort it&#8221; here to feed my children? or clothe my children? no i am by myself with them suffering so dont listen to any one who says abortion is evil&#8230; fuck that. if you cant provide for the baby then that is the option.or if he wants to be the father marry him and have a good life. take care.</p>
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		<title>By: riaz</title>
		<link>http://askayeti.com/2009/11/daddy-swap/comment-page-1/#comment-51</link>
		<dc:creator>riaz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 04:17:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hi what a beautiful artical</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hi what a beautiful artical</p>
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		<title>By: ZUBAIR</title>
		<link>http://askayeti.com/2009/11/daddy-swap/comment-page-1/#comment-50</link>
		<dc:creator>ZUBAIR</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Jan 2010 07:25:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi
i am very happy to read your suggestion to the women who was in kind of trouble , all the things which you told is cent percent correct. but i got only one thing to tell you dear. you might have suffered badly because of mens. 
but believe me there are 100 thousand of mens who think with there heart. even i am a men ,i am about 26 now, but i never ever had sex with any girl, because i am a religious man, and i will do it with one  else it is for my life partner only,  because she is the only one who got the right to do so. 
know tell me what do you have with you today.nothing, you lost your virginity and no one is there to be wit you. 
i just want to tell you only one thing my dear, please don&#039;t  let any one else to play with you or wit your feelings.i strongly feel that you are very independent and got lots of wisdom, you have real time experience. you are too young you got heaps of things to do in your life. so be careful in your life. 
i wish you will be successful in every part of life, and inshallaha  you will be living all your life with happyiness</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi<br />
i am very happy to read your suggestion to the women who was in kind of trouble , all the things which you told is cent percent correct. but i got only one thing to tell you dear. you might have suffered badly because of mens.<br />
but believe me there are 100 thousand of mens who think with there heart. even i am a men ,i am about 26 now, but i never ever had sex with any girl, because i am a religious man, and i will do it with one  else it is for my life partner only,  because she is the only one who got the right to do so.<br />
know tell me what do you have with you today.nothing, you lost your virginity and no one is there to be wit you.<br />
i just want to tell you only one thing my dear, please don&#8217;t  let any one else to play with you or wit your feelings.i strongly feel that you are very independent and got lots of wisdom, you have real time experience. you are too young you got heaps of things to do in your life. so be careful in your life.<br />
i wish you will be successful in every part of life, and inshallaha  you will be living all your life with happyiness</p>
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		<title>By: Carey</title>
		<link>http://askayeti.com/2009/11/daddy-swap/comment-page-1/#comment-47</link>
		<dc:creator>Carey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Jan 2010 18:58:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;...if he really loves you he should understand.&quot;  Oh please.  Whether he loves her or not, I hope he&#039;d understand...and then wish her a good life before moving on.    Turn it around, If she really loves him why would she even consider deceiving him...or even if she didn&#039;t &quot;really love him&quot; for that matter.  Character still counts even for those who chose to believe otherwise.  Even if it was his child, this relationship is still barely in the dating stage, and marriage is pretty tough under the best of circumstances.  This has disaster written all over it.

I suppose the concept of not sleeping around is just too old fashioned.  However, there a rumor out that WE NOW KNOW WHAT CAUSEES PREGNANCY, and that IT CAN BE EASILY PREVENTED!   So, after the whole character thing let&#039;s add really stupid (both father and mother) to the equation ...but especially the mother.  Men play at love to get sex.  Women play at sex to get love.  Like it or not, ladies, your gender bears the consequences AND therefore the greater responsibility for not getting pregnant.  If for no other reason, self preservation. So, wise up, plan ahead or don&#039;t whine when the enevitable happens.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;&#8230;if he really loves you he should understand.&#8221;  Oh please.  Whether he loves her or not, I hope he&#8217;d understand&#8230;and then wish her a good life before moving on.    Turn it around, If she really loves him why would she even consider deceiving him&#8230;or even if she didn&#8217;t &#8220;really love him&#8221; for that matter.  Character still counts even for those who chose to believe otherwise.  Even if it was his child, this relationship is still barely in the dating stage, and marriage is pretty tough under the best of circumstances.  This has disaster written all over it.</p>
<p>I suppose the concept of not sleeping around is just too old fashioned.  However, there a rumor out that WE NOW KNOW WHAT CAUSEES PREGNANCY, and that IT CAN BE EASILY PREVENTED!   So, after the whole character thing let&#8217;s add really stupid (both father and mother) to the equation &#8230;but especially the mother.  Men play at love to get sex.  Women play at sex to get love.  Like it or not, ladies, your gender bears the consequences AND therefore the greater responsibility for not getting pregnant.  If for no other reason, self preservation. So, wise up, plan ahead or don&#8217;t whine when the enevitable happens.</p>
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		<title>By: kiani</title>
		<link>http://askayeti.com/2009/11/daddy-swap/comment-page-1/#comment-46</link>
		<dc:creator>kiani</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 14:35:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hi :)... I don&#039;t think you should tell your boyfriend that the baby is his if it isn&#039;t. If he really loves you then hopefully he will accept it and love it when the time comes for the baby to be born. Hopefully he will ACCEPT it BEFORE that, and hopefully when that time comes it won&#039;t just be him accepting it, hopefully it will be him being greatful for this child and adoring it. I don&#039;t believe that a child needs a father. my mom raised me and my six siblings, and i am fine with that. I do know my father, and i don&#039;t see him by my own choice. People who say that no man but the biological father can play the part of a father may be right, but after all it doesn&#039;t take much to be a BIOLOGICAL FATHER. All it takes is a bit of sperm. I think that it is being a DAD or a DADDY that really counts for something:) and i DON&#039;T think that you have to be the biological father to play that part. That said i do think you should give your child a chance to know the biological father. One the other hand, if he is abbusive or something bad then i don&#039;t think you should, but as they grow older i think they should have the chance if they wan&#039;t  to know them, but as they get older. PLEASE DON&#039;T GET AN ABORTION. if you don&#039;t feel you can handle the baby or don&#039;t want it then please give it up for adoption. (not saying that is the case, but if it is). I hope everything works out well for you and your baby, and also your baby&#039;s DADDY whoever that may be:) stay safe, and be strong. God Bless you</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hi <img src='http://askayeti.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> &#8230; I don&#8217;t think you should tell your boyfriend that the baby is his if it isn&#8217;t. If he really loves you then hopefully he will accept it and love it when the time comes for the baby to be born. Hopefully he will ACCEPT it BEFORE that, and hopefully when that time comes it won&#8217;t just be him accepting it, hopefully it will be him being greatful for this child and adoring it. I don&#8217;t believe that a child needs a father. my mom raised me and my six siblings, and i am fine with that. I do know my father, and i don&#8217;t see him by my own choice. People who say that no man but the biological father can play the part of a father may be right, but after all it doesn&#8217;t take much to be a BIOLOGICAL FATHER. All it takes is a bit of sperm. I think that it is being a DAD or a DADDY that really counts for something:) and i DON&#8217;T think that you have to be the biological father to play that part. That said i do think you should give your child a chance to know the biological father. One the other hand, if he is abbusive or something bad then i don&#8217;t think you should, but as they grow older i think they should have the chance if they wan&#8217;t  to know them, but as they get older. PLEASE DON&#8217;T GET AN ABORTION. if you don&#8217;t feel you can handle the baby or don&#8217;t want it then please give it up for adoption. (not saying that is the case, but if it is). I hope everything works out well for you and your baby, and also your baby&#8217;s DADDY whoever that may be:) stay safe, and be strong. God Bless you</p>
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		<title>By: Dave</title>
		<link>http://askayeti.com/2009/11/daddy-swap/comment-page-1/#comment-45</link>
		<dc:creator>Dave</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 11:34:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>LOL, you are seriously joking , with all the serious STD&#039;s around nowadays, and free condoms availible from almost anywhere, AND YOU GET KNOCKED UP.......!, HA HA HA HA HA, wake up..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LOL, you are seriously joking , with all the serious STD&#8217;s around nowadays, and free condoms availible from almost anywhere, AND YOU GET KNOCKED UP&#8230;&#8230;.!, HA HA HA HA HA, wake up..</p>
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		<title>By: alex</title>
		<link>http://askayeti.com/2009/11/daddy-swap/comment-page-1/#comment-43</link>
		<dc:creator>alex</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jan 2010 13:20:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i think running away from things isnt the answer. you are running from reality. the child ISNT his. living a lie will only make things worse. yeah, in the beginning things might work out, but one day, you argue, and then you, in rage, spill the beans. at that moment your life will fall apart. 
dont live a lie, tell the truth, we are humand, we make mistakes, but IF he loves you, thant wont matter. it doesnt meen he wont feel cross, or sad, but love´s stonger than anything else.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i think running away from things isnt the answer. you are running from reality. the child ISNT his. living a lie will only make things worse. yeah, in the beginning things might work out, but one day, you argue, and then you, in rage, spill the beans. at that moment your life will fall apart.<br />
dont live a lie, tell the truth, we are humand, we make mistakes, but IF he loves you, thant wont matter. it doesnt meen he wont feel cross, or sad, but love´s stonger than anything else.</p>
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