Comments on: Daddy Swap

By: dave

dave — Mon, 14 Feb 2011 20:25:16 +0000

Don’t lie to this guy. You’ve dated him 2 months and you love him and you just KNOW he is going to ba a wondeful father? You don’t know anything in 2 months.
And if you’re seriously considering deceaving this guy and telling him the baby is his, then he is way better off without you, so cut him lose. Don’t be a lying deceaving phoney person. Tell him the truth, and let him decide if he wants to stay with you. He might choose to stay, and the 2 of you can lie to the kid that he is the father, and 20 years later if the truth comes out, you can tell the kid that “yes, we lied to you, but you were raised in a home with 2 parents that loved you”.
The alternative is to lie to the boyfriend, and that way 20 years later when the truth comes out, they will both hate you for lying, and your kid will think “i was raised by some schmuck who is so stupid, he didn’t know that his girlfriend of 2 months is 3 months pregnant.

By: Joe

Joe — Sun, 23 Jan 2011 17:12:07 +0000

No one is more godless than the promoters of war and suffering of the poor, idiots like you and other far right wingnuts.

By: Joe

Joe — Sun, 23 Jan 2011 17:10:05 +0000

There’s a funny little thing called birth control, I think its been around for a few decades. Another idiot creating a future idiot.

By: Tonya

Tonya — Wed, 19 Jan 2011 17:46:30 +0000

I enjoyed reading your reply. You have a depth that most don’t. I wish I had a question to ask of you=]

By: elvana

elvana — Sun, 16 Jan 2011 16:16:07 +0000

hi dear….
dnt u woey every fing gona b alrite! abortion is nt a solution n can never b as wel..jst concentrate on ur baby..ur bfrnd cn understand u if he really loves u..jst b prepared for d worst b4 telin hm d trust n d best gona happen 4 sure!!
tke cre

By: Big Daddy

Big Daddy — Fri, 24 Dec 2010 12:35:15 +0000

Dear concerned…..

I noticed that this post is almost a year after the fact which means the choice that you had to face has already come to pass as your baby has been born. I am 35 years old with a 17 year old. She came to be in my life when I was in fact 17 years old and yes, I married her mother. But, I don’t in anyway advocate marriage based on simply concieving a child. Life is hard enough raising a child or children. Complicating that life with a relationship based on someone else’s moral, ethical or religious beliefs would be an unnecessary burdon to both you and your child. My wife and I were together for 8 years before we got married. We waited until we knew beyond any doubt that we were ready for that comitment. The only thing worse for a child than growing up between 2 homes is living trapped in one were its parents fight and argue constantly and clearly feel trapped instead of loved. I wsh all the best for you and your son/daughter. And I hope things worked out for you. If they did not just keep in mind there is someone for you and you will find that person. Until that day comes hold strong and love that child more than life itself and everything will work out for you.
Godbless.

By: fahad

fahad — Sat, 18 Dec 2010 19:14:47 +0000

these r not nice comments

By: Lucifer

Lucifer — Sun, 21 Nov 2010 00:01:21 +0000

If your new boyfriend is inclined to be jealous or possessive, the relationship will probably end sooner rather than later. If he does not at all care about your previous sexual relations, and he likes the idea of becoming a father so soon, it may work.

SIgned

A jealous male.

By: anon

anon — Wed, 17 Nov 2010 00:59:21 +0000

you had your daughter at 17…. she’s 2 atp(at time of post)…. you’re 21 atp…. time lapse?

(save the hate messages i wont be coming back here)

By: Sarah

Sarah — Tue, 16 Nov 2010 00:28:46 +0000

let me start off by saying congrats….now if this guy really loves you then hell understand and stick with you through it all…but if you tell him and he runs…..well then it wasnt meant to be and you and your baby are better off without him…..but please just dont tell him that its his cause when it comes down to it and he finds out hell be hurt