I Think I’m In Love With My Boss
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Written by admin on December 7, 2009 – 6:20 am
Dear Yeti,
I think I may be in love with my boss. I have been working at my new job for 3 months now. I begun picking up on subtle romantic undertones from my boss who is in his forties and happily married. One day he asked me if I wanted to go for a ride on his motorcycle, so I went. After that day I got so turned on everytime I am around him. Eventually it happened where we were together alone in our shop and we had the most amazing sex I’ve ever had in my life. After that he told me that what happened was a mistake and that he was really in love with his wife. I’m not the type of girl to get involved with a married man but I can’t stop thinking about him. Plus everyone in our shop says that his wife is a lesbian. I never wanted to be in a situation like this but here I am. I don’t dare lead on that I’m into him as much as I am but it’s starting to interfere with my work. What’s really messing me up is that my boss is almost 20 years older than me. Should I start snooping into his personal life to see if I am missing something about his supposed marriage or should I just back off entirely.
Betty Bop
Dear ABC,
Dear BB
This guy doesn’t happen to be a professional golfer by any chance does he? Why are you using the gossip of coworkers to justify your infidelity with this guy? You need to realize that all that talk about the boss’s wife being a closet lesbian is just hear say. No you can’t use that to validate any future “transgretions” (Shout out to the Tiger Woods legal team for this phrase). Oh and by the way all this dirty laundry about the boss’s gay wife will be peanuts compared to the gossip that will come out if you don’t cool it with this affair. I think what you are really asking me is do I get out of this situation, and how?
First off your poor philandering boss is probably scared he’s going to loose both his business and his wife over his misconduct. It’s probably best to discuss this situation with him one on one before doing anything else. The fact that he has cut off your romantic relationship cold turkey is probably a sign that he does remain a shred of dignity, and wishes to regress into his quasi normal life again. Advise him that you wish to air out all your feelings with him and ask if he has anything to divulge. Should you tell his wife? Yea probably, being open and honest is cathartic and help you add closure to this chapter in you life. However you should put out some feelers on this first. If it’s true that this marriage is a sham and he is nothing but a beard for his wife it may be a valid excuse for putting the breaks on the confession. The truth is that other peoples relationships can be incomprehensible for outsiders and that infidelity and public infidelity can be two different things entirely.
Lastly women who have and act on their “daddy complex” are often easy targets for crafty married men. Try dating unattached men your own age with whom you can relate to.
A Yet
Bear B
Come out of the game and do focus on you , That is good stable piece of work if you could handle yourself being go for a man almost 20 years older could be a experiece that you need to spell your self. By the way making such decisions making your way more confusing , beter to be clear and go to men with you could comfortably relate
LIsten, you little homewrecker, I hope his wife finds out about his romantic undertones or whaever you called them and your “love”. I hope his kids find out,too. Then I hope you both get what you so dearly deserve. When his wife and kids take him for everything he’s got his old ass won’t look so good to you anymore. Get your own guy you little wh**e! Trash!!!!
P.S your bos just wanted to hit that. Though it must of not ben that good if he tells u im sorry after words. The only thing i can see that would scare a man away from an easy undergound affair would be. That your obviously too clingy and got too serious to fast which is your fult really. Just hope he dont see you as a threat and hope he dont decide to fire your ass. Three months you say, i need to look into owning a business and a motercycle.lol.
LOL… Hey.. I’m married and 39 years old and I have a motorcycle!!!!! I think your cute, too!!!!! Wanna hook up??!! You aren’t married, and you have no obligation to anyone. He’s the one who broke his vows, not you. If you love him, tell him!!!! go for it!!