I'm going straight to the point, I like this guy, but he doesnt even know I exist, and I'd really like to go out with him. What do I do for him to notice me? All my friends say I should just talk to him, but should I do that? I just think thats so weird, to just walk up to him and be like "hi, my name is katy" But if I dont do that there will be no other way for him to notice me! So my question is, is it weird of me to say hi to him? What is some advice about getting the attention of a guy who doesnt really notice you?
Do not run up to this guy and introduce yourself. This could be catastrophic to your self-image and potentially scar you for life. No, instead rush to your nearest video store, strip the place of all Hugh Grant and/or Sandra Bullock movies and observe the ritual of clumsy/romantic introductions. Then plot your next move. How is it that there is not a font yet for sarcasm. I mean come on, look at how useful that would have been here. Katy let me ask you a real question, a hard one. How is it that you are all about him and he hasn’t even noticed you yet?
I ask this for two reasons. First off, is it possible that he is not looking for romantic interests right now? Is it possible he is gay, married, grieving or otherwise off the market. There is only one way to find out: yep, go up and talk to him like any other human being would, which brings me to my next point.
How do you know you want to date him if you don’t even know him? He could be a total d-bag. For all you know he might be way into death metal and scientology or something that turns you off. Your question “What is some advice about getting the attention of a guy who doesnt really notice you” is just plain silly. My answer, next time you are around him wear your underwear out side your clothing smear your mascara like you have been crying all day, and if you do talk speak only in riddles. This is sure to get his attention, but not in the way that you want. The truth is that here are no tricks, techniques to use to get his attention in a sincere way. A girl who introduces herself then just walks away can be a real turn on. Use charm, grace and sincerity as your tools.
By putting him up on a pedestal you are essentially damning any real type of connection you could make with him. If you like him, dig deeper into who you are and tap into what makes you valuable as a friend and maybe a lover. Then introduce yourself. If the conversation goes smoothly then you can peel away the mystery of this guy and find out if there are any sparks between the two of you. But do yourself a favor, leave your assumptions about him behind. It’ll only make your introduction less sincere and more uncomfortable. Also a slimming dress and a few cocktails might even the playing field a little.